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                   We 
                    have so many such people around us who have not had opportunity 
                    to realise their potential on account of personal circumstances. 
                    And as time passed, very few ever thought they had it in them 
                    to do anything better than what they are already doing.  
                  A 
                    friend was recounting the story of their twenty-five year 
                    old maid - a competent person, bubbling with energy. She has 
                    energy to do everything under the sun, except study. She doesn't 
                    even sit with her daughter and make her study. But she is 
                    interested in learning new things. My friend asked her hairdresser 
                    if she could teach her maid to manicure and pedicure. She 
                    readily agreed, but felt obliged to caution: "you will 
                    be spending a couple of thousand getting her trained. Are 
                    you sure you want her to learn all these things - she might 
                    leave you after some time."  
                  These 
                    two episodes typify the dilemmas of our society. Far too many 
                    people are living lives of quiet desperation. Most people 
                    have no opportunity to fulfil their potential. But society 
                    at large is pretty cozy and comfortable with status quo. If 
                    a person, inherently capable of doing a lot more or better 
                    quality of work, does not have the opportunity to hone her 
                    skills or improve knowledge, she can never move up on the 
                    economic and social ladder. But giving her an opportunity 
                    may mean those of us who are now enjoying inexpensive domestic 
                    labour will be forced to do things on our own. That is the 
                    ultimate tragedy in our society! How can we drive our own 
                    cars, cook our own food, wash our own dishes, tend our own 
                    garden? 
                  We 
                    often overlook the fact that the societal benefit of having 
                    fully productive people far outweighs the loss to our individual 
                    comfort. If the potential of the many unskilled and semi-skilled 
                    persons is fulfilled, we as individuals benefit a lot more 
                    by getting better quality goods and services at lower prices. 
                     
                  Our 
                    problem is not merely that of individuals unwilling to give 
                    up status quo. Our society does not make it easy for people 
                    to learn new things, explore exciting avenues, and make new 
                    beginnings in life. We categorize people pretty early in life, 
                    and create slots for them. We make it very hard for them to 
                    break out of those shackles. There are no easy learning opportunities, 
                    and no real support for new beginnings. Open universities 
                    and distance learning are certainly a good start, but a lot 
                    more needs to be done. But first, we of the comfortable middle 
                    classes should be willing to recognize that many around us 
                    have had no decent opportunity for a better life and to acquire 
                    greater skills. Life need not end at thirty. People should 
                    be given opportunities to overcome their early disadvantages. 
                    We should learn to encourage them to improve their skills 
                    and gain more knowledge.  
                    Many senior citizens in the US join universities to obtain 
                    a degree. Often they are not even seeking a job or income. 
                    Such learning is great fun. Can we provide the same opportunities 
                    to those many around us whose potential is unfulfilled? 
                     
                   
                     
                    
                   
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